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Valentine’s Day Is Coming… Have You Thought About What to Gift Her?


Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and if you’re still wondering what to gift your partner, don’t stress. Below are thoughtful gift ideas and ways to curate a Valentine’s Day basket that will warm her heart and make her feel truly loved.


Gifts don’t have to be expensive to be meaningful. A well-thought-out gift often speaks louder than the price tag. If she loves luxury gifts and your budget allows, go for it! But these ideas are budget-friendly, heartfelt, and full of intention.


I hope this guide helps you find something she’ll love!


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Self-Care

Facial Steamer & Spa Kit - A spa-style facial steamer with skin care tools, perfect for an at-home glow up night.

Cozy Throw Blanket - A plush, oversized blanket she’ll want on every movie or cuddle night.

Under Eye Patches - Hydrating patches to refresh tired eyes.

Lip Oils & Lip Serums - A trio of glossy, nourishing lip oils or serums she can keep in her bag.

Sleep Essentials - Because beauty starts with a good night’s sleep.

Red Light Therapy Mask - LED light therapy for skin rejuvenation (reduces fine lines + boosts glow).

Face Masks - A gift for radiant, glowing skin.


Fun & Thoughtful Extras

Vision Board Kit - A creative way to plan dreams, goals, and memories for the year together.

Date Night Dice Game - A cute way to choose surprise date ideas together, perfect for couples struggling to find things to do or what to eat for dinner!


For the Woman Who Works from Home

Make her workspace feel like a second love letter, thoughtful tools that help her work comfortably and stylishly:

Pair these with a cute mug and a note like: “For your comfort, focus, and all the goals you’re crushing.” 


Bonus Basket Add-On Ideas


These are excellent little pieces you can tuck into a Valentine’s gift basket:






Valentine’s Day Basket Build Suggestions

Cozy Night In Basket: Blanket + date night dice + book + cozy socks

For the WFH Girlies: Keyboard + comfy mouse + desk mat + mug + slippers



Coming Up Next: Valentine’s Day Couples Experiences

Looking for something more memorable than a physical gift? In my next post, I’ll be sharing romantic and fun Valentine’s Day couples experiences, perfect for creating lasting memories together.


Whether you’re planning something big or keeping it simple, this upcoming guide will help you turn Valentine’s Day into a meaningful experience.

👉 Stay tune...this post is coming soon!


 
 
 

Hi! I’m Angie, a mom, storyteller, and everyday explorer navigating life with my three-year-old daughter, Arya. While I’m not jet-setting five times a year, I do believe in making the most of the moments we do get to travel, even if it’s just once in a while. Recently, we spent a month in China on a meaningful adventure, visiting relatives along with the grandparents. It was a trip full of beautiful memories, unexpected challenges, and plenty of growth for both of us.


In this travel series, I’m excited to share our real, unfiltered experiences, Toddlers struggles during travels, the good, the chaotic, and the heartwarming. Whether you’re a parent thinking about a family trip or simply love reading about travel through a mom’s lens, I hope these stories leave you inspired, encouraged, and reminded that it’s not about how often you go, it’s about what you take away when you do...


Arya waiting at the Hong Kong Airport's Ferry Port
Arya waiting at the Hong Kong Airport's Ferry Port

When I dreamed about taking Arya to China, I pictured excitement: running around airports, wide-eyed wonder at temples, chasing bubbles in the parks. Reality had something different planned for us.


It started as soon as we landed at Hong Kong International Airport. Normally independent, my little girl suddenly refused to let me out of her sight. I couldn’t step away for a minute, not even to ask about our connecting transport into China. She followed me into bathroom stalls, clung to my arm where ever I'm going, and cried desperately if I so much as took a few steps ahead.


I remember waiting for our next transport into China from Hong Kong which is a Ferry port. I was in need for a quick run to the restroom and not even making it to the front of restroom area, I hear a loud cry "I WANT MOMMYYYYYY" from the waiting area. Yes, that was my daughter. Grandma was not able to calm her.


This hadn’t happened before. Arya has always been comfortable with short separations like staying with grandma, waving goodbye when I needed a moment. But now, across the world, in a sea of unfamiliar sights, sounds, and languages, I was her only safe anchor.


Inside our house in China, it continued. Even in a familiar home setting, she would follow me from room to room, holding onto my dress or grabbing my hand. If I went to the kitchen? She was right behind me. If I went to the bathroom? Little knocks would come at the door within seconds.


At first, I felt a little overwhelmed. I thought, “Is this how the whole month is going to be?”

But then I reminded myself, this wasn’t misbehavior. It was survival instincts. In her toddler mind, unfamiliar meant unsafe, and sticking to me was how she kept herself feeling protected. Especially when daddy is back home in the states.


How I dealt with it:

Patience: I didn’t rush her or get frustrated. Instead, I reassured her constantly with hugs, words, and staying nearby.

Empathy: I imagined how big and strange the world must feel through her little eyes.

Perspective: I told myself, “This is temporary. And these snuggles, even if exhausting, are a gift.”


Sure, my hope of grabbing a peaceful coffee or enjoying a solo moment were… put on hold. But what I got instead was even better: hours and hours of bonding with my daughter in a new land, creating stories we’ll tell for years.


Other Unexpected Challenges:


Separation anxiety wasn’t the only curveball. Arya, who usually loves food back in the States, suddenly didn’t enjoy anything. Even dishes that tasted ten times better here in China, nope. She survived on plain rice, the occasional chicken wing, snacks, and… let’s be real, McDonald’s, KFC, and Domino’s. Trying new things was completely out of the question.


I found myself sneaking little bits of seaweed crunch into her rice or trying to mix in healthier bites wherever I could. I wasn’t proud of handing her snacks all day long, but at a certain point, getting something in her belly became more important than sticking to any food rules.


And then came the sleep struggles. The first three nights were fine, thank you, jet lag. But after that, bedtime became a battle. She would find every excuse possible to avoid sleep, even though she was clearly exhausted. I was exhausted too. But I kept reminding myself: new bed, new place, overstimulated mind… of course she couldn’t settle down.


She was in full vacation mode, and all she wanted to do was play.


Looking Back...No Regrets


Yes, there were struggles. The clinginess. The picky eating. The bedtime battles. The exhaustion that comes with being “on” 24/7 as a solo parent in a foreign country. But even with all of that, I don’t regret a single moment of taking Arya on this one-month journey to China.


This trip gave us something I couldn’t have planned for: time. Real, uninterrupted time to bond. I watched her grow in ways I didn’t expect, not just emotionally, but even in her language. Being surrounded by Chinese speakers helped her connect with her roots, and slowly, she began picking up words and phrases. More than that, she felt deeply connected to family she had never met before.


She formed real bonds, especially with a few relatives she now FaceTimes regularly. And after we returned home, she would remind me of things she saw, places we visited, and moments that stood out to her. We’d sit together, reminiscing and laughing about the trip. For example, she said to me the other day, do you remember the baby shopping carts? I would go around the store and pick out the things I liked and you would pay at the counter because I don't have money? Ohh yes, sweetie I remember and maybe New York should have more of these stores with baby shopping carts as well to promote independence in stores for toddlers. Arya enjoyed it so much!


This was a store named 好想来 which means "really want to come here". Cutest convenience store with baby shopping carts. To be honest here, she wanted the whole store but she only picked out a few items. There was just too much goodies in there!
This was a store named 好想来 which means "really want to come here". Cutest convenience store with baby shopping carts. To be honest here, she wanted the whole store but she only picked out a few items. There was just too much goodies in there!

On our very last day in China, she turned to me and asked, “Mama, can we stay here and not go back home?”


That moment? That’s when I knew, she didn’t just enjoy the trip, she felt it. She was loved, welcomed, and impacted by every person she met. And to me, that made every challenge along the way completely worth it.


Would I do it again? Absolutely.

But maybe next time, I’ll bring my husband too, just to catch a break here and there!


Tips for Fellow Parents Traveling with Toddlers:


  • Expect the unexpected. Even the most adaptable kids can have emotional reactions to new environments.

  • Stick close at first. Give your child time to adjust before encouraging independence.

  • Let go of perfection. Some days it’ll be rice and snacks. Some nights they’ll sleep late. And that’s okay.

  • Be gentle with yourself. Your patience will be tested, and that doesn’t mean you’re failing.


Question for You:

Have you ever traveled with your child and experienced something totally unexpected? Whether it was a food strike, a sleep regression, or sudden clinginess? I’d love to hear how you navigated it. Share your story in the comments!


Stay tuned...next up, I’m diving into Guangzhou’s incredible food scene… even if I had to enjoy it solo while Arya stuck to her comfort food.


 
 
 
  • Writer: The Chaotic Edit
    The Chaotic Edit
  • Mar 4, 2025
  • 3 min read

Updated: May 22, 2025

Let’s be honest, whether you work from home or in an office, work-life balance is a constant battle. For those of us working from home, the boundaries between work and personal life blur fast. And for those going into the office, the grind doesn’t stop just because you’ve clocked out.


No matter where we work, there’s always something pulling at our time.


As a WFH mom, I love the flexibility of being home. I can pick up my daughter from daycare, avoid a long commute, and squeeze in small household tasks between meetings. But that also means I’m always accessible. Emails at 7 AM, Team messages at 9 PM, urgent projects popping up at 4:58 PM with a “need this done by 6 PM” deadline (which, by the way, is impossible when I have to leave for daycare pickup).


For those in the office, the struggle is just as real. Long commutes, extended meetings, and the expectation to be available beyond working hours. Even if you’re physically away from your desk, your phone keeps buzzing with notifications, making it hard to ever truly “clock out.”


The Good and Bad of WFH vs. Office Life


The Good of Working from Home:

  • No commute = More time for yourself or your family.

  • Flexibility to run quick errands or do daycare pickup.

  • More control over your environment (goodbye, freezing office AC!).

The Bad of Working from Home:

  • No real “off” switch, work can bleed into personal time.

  • More distractions (kids, housework, deliveries).

  • The expectation to always be available since “you’re home anyway.”

The Good of Working in an Office:

  • Clear separation between work and home.

  • Face-to-face interaction with coworkers.

  • Easier to shut down work at the end of the day.

The Bad of Working in an Office:

  • Commuting eats up personal time.

  • Rigid schedules with less flexibility for family needs.

  • Meetings that could have been emails (we’ve all been there).


No matter where you work, the key to balance is knowing when to stop.


How to Protect Your Time (No Matter Where You Work)

Set a Hard Stop for Work​


If you’re working from home, decide on a cutoff time (ex: 6 PM) and stick to it. If you need to log in after bedtime, limit it to a set window (ex: 8:30-9:30 PM), but don’t let it turn into an all-nighter. If you’re in the office, commit to actually leaving on time whenever possible.


Mute Notifications After Hours


Turn off Slack, email, and work apps on your phone after hours. If it’s truly urgent, they’ll call you. If not, it can wait.


Push Back on Unrealistic Expectations


If a last-minute request comes in at 5 PM, ask:

  • Does this truly need to be done tonight?

  • Can we move the deadline to tomorrow morning?

  • Can this be planned better next time?


More often than not, the urgency is artificial. Challenge it.

Create Transitions Between Work and Home


If you work from home, do something after work to signal the end of the day. Take a walk, change your clothes, or step away from your workspace. If you work in an office, use your commute as transition time to mentally shift out of work mode.


Why This Matters for Your Mental Health


If you’re constantly “on,” burnout will hit fast. The longer you go without true balance, the more you’ll notice:

  • Increased stress and anxiety.

  • Lack of patience with family or friends.

  • Trouble sleeping and exhaustion.

  • Feeling disconnected from things you enjoy.


On the flip side, when you protect your work-life balance, you’ll feel:

  • More present with your family.

  • More productive during work hours (because you’re not running on fumes).

  • More control over your own time.


Work is Important, But So Are You


Whether you work remotely or in an office, your time belongs to you first. Your job will always be there, but the moments with your family, your well-being, and your mental peace? Those are things you can’t get back.


So, when the workday is done, log off, walk away, and be fully present. Because at the end of the day, work can wait...life can’t.

 
 
 

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